Nobody ever talks about this so shoutout to autistic and other disabled women who are expected to dress and act in “gender neutral” ways because of disability. You have the right to wear clothes that are overtly feminine or masculine, the right to choose whether or not you want to wear makeup and the right to show your real personality, girly or not. You are allowed to have interests that are traditionally feminine or ones that aren’t. You dont have to tone down who you are because other people dont expect a disabled woman to wear dresses and heels, or to know how to fix a car. You dont have to be defined by an abled persons idea of who you should be