apersnicketylemon:

Anyways, a person changing their label to accommodate their attraction to an NB person isn’t and will never be ‘fetishizing’ them, in and of itself, and if you think it is, you don’t understand what ‘fetishizing’ a person actually entails.

I’m always going to be more comfortable with a person who adjusts their label to accommodate their attraction of me then a person who, you know, refuses and thereby constantly misgenders me.