allophobics:

every time you use “gaybaiting” or “gay-coded” instead of “queerbaiting” and “queercoded” you spit in the face of every identity that’s referred to by those broadly-accepted terms that isn’t straight-up cis gay (eg bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, trans, nonbinary, ace, aro) and actively contribute to the homogenization and destruction of the diversity of lgbtq+ people, the erasure of bi pan ply trans/nb & aspec people, and the prioritisation of cis gay people above the needs of any other members of the lgbtq+ community