if a cis person is unwilling to take trans and nonbinary people seriously when they say “I’m trans/nonbinary,” the problem is with that cis person and a transphobic society, not with trans and nonbinary people creating new identity labels
it’s not autigender people’s fault when neurotypicals are shitty toward autistic people. we live in a whole society that is built to be shitty to autistic people.
no matter what scapegoats or excuses they give, cis people & neurotypicals are fully responsible for their own transphobia & ableism.